THE LAST OF THE REAL CHILDHOOD By: Charmaine Gumbs
THE LAST OF THE REAL CHILDHOOD
I feel like if I could turn back the hands of time o would go back to when I was a
child, where my imagination knows no limit, and with every new day brought a new
adventure. It is the time of laughter in the air friendship are formed over the simplest of
joys where the world is one enormous playground waiting too be explored.
As a child we see things differently we see the world to be a beautiful place
looking through the lens of innocence. Where we believe in magic, superheroes and
that anything can happen. Growing up we played with our siblings, the neighbors and
our classmates when we at school. We played so many games like cops and robbers,
cowboys and Indians, hopscotch, kick ball, softball, baseball, skating, skateboarding,
hanging out in the park going to the beach. We were the last of the generation where
we were safe to go play where our parents were not afraid for us, safe to go by the
neighbor's house. Last of the generation where we had to be home before the
streetlights come on.
We in the times were children are not safe to be outside playing and if they were
this a new generation where they do not come outside their entertainment is inside on
their electronic devices. I remember as a child our parents had to call us inside or we
were found and made to come inside, the new generation you have to fight with them to
go outside.
When we were in school, we had recess and lunch where we get to enjoy the
love of being outside playing and enjoying being children before had to go back in class
and begin or continue our lessons. Then we had Physical education class where we
played kick ball softball and learn different sports. That was helpful cause it kept us
physically fit. My generation we were not overweight. During the summer you would see
a group of children riding their bikes to the park or to the beach. If not, we would go to
the movie theatre and watch a action movie.
We were the last of many having a two parent household, majority of children in
our times we were coming home to two parents. In this time most of the homes are
made up of single parents home. The hugs or parents, laughing with your siblings and
the stories my father often told us before we go to bed. These are the movements
where not only created a sense of security but also family traditions, holiday
celebrations these fond memories that will stay with us forever.
Then here comes the transition period whereas our childhood fades as it is
replaced by the responsibility as we transition into adulthood. The imaginary world we
created as children we turn it into real-life dreams and aspirations. Even though we
grow older a piece of that childhood remains with us, from time to time we reflect on
those carefree days, the innocence of our first friendships and the simple joys of life that
made us smile. Then we come back to the reality that we are no longer children but
adult with responsibilities that sometimes keep us from living life until that inner child
somehow surface and the adult in us begin to live life.